Thursday, February 16, 2012

Day 4 - Week 51 - Proverbs 15:1 "A gentle answer turns away anger, but a harsh word stirs up wrath."

Do you ever wonder why we have so much anger and violence in our world today?  Some people say we really don't have any more, it's just that our increased exposure to media makes us so much more aware.  But I would argue that in 2012 we encounter a much higher percentage of violence and outbursts of pure anger than ever before.  Why do you think that is?

Could part of the problem be all of the very harsh words that are being blasted throughout every aspect of our lives?  Every where we turn, people are shouting obscenities and yelling derogatory names.  Do you ever grow weary of it all and long to return to a calmer, more gentle time?  I think we all do.

So what can we do?  Well here's my challenge to you straight from the Word of God.  See how long you can go without using any harsh words, any yelling, restricting anything coming out of your mouth that is less than calm, controlled, and contains at least a hint of gentleness.  (Now don't go overboard with a false effect, I really don't want all of us talking like Mr. Rogers all of the time!)  Let's see what the effect has within our homes, within our work places...could it be that our gentleness provokes an expanded area of reduced tension?  That the people around us will start feeling a lessening of tension and hostility.

Could it just be that God's Word has a word for our society...borrowing a phrase from the 80s, "STOP the insanity!"  Stop your ridiculous treatment of each other by the words that are blasting our of your mouths...words of harshness, crudeness and just plain meanness!

OK - you've been challenged!  So have I.  Let's see how this experiment plays out.  And maybe, just maybe, we'll see such a change within us and all around us that it will become our lifestyle, a lifestyle that brings with it peace and calm...now wouldn't that be something that a good Father would want for His children?

(And please, if you don't know who Mr. Rogers is, don't tell me.  I already feel old enough!)  :)

1 comment:

donna said...

This verse rings true in my life. I respond to gentleness and run from harsh, ugly words that are used as a way of expression. I automatically retreat when I hear a vulgar, harsh, curse words. Words can heal and words can destroy. Hurtful words destroy feelings. I accept your challenge to reach out to others with kindness and gentleness. I feel love when I am treated with kindness. I also want to express my love in gentle words - words spoken and unspoken.